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Sandra Heather Cashley

Sandra Heather  Cashley


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Passed away on 11 January 2021, aged 65 years.

Donations in memory of Sandra will be gratefully received.

Page closes on 01 March 2021

Funeral Service
Date & Time:Thursday 28 Jan 2021 11:30 AM
Service:Reading Crematorium - South Chapel
Live Webcast Details:

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  • Anonymous online donation
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Frankie and Chris online donation
  • £20.00 Ann & Tony Beasley offline donation
    It is sent with many fond memories of Sandra, a lovely friend of many years ago. My thoughts go to her daughters Nicole, Colletto and families
  • Carol Purdy online donation
    Special friend - you always had a smile to share, time to give and time to care, a wonderful nature warm and true, you were my friend and I really miss you. Love Carol x
  • £20.00 Sheila Smyth online donation
    Dear Sandy you were such a lovely friend, so many happy memories, Lots of laughter and fun times together over the years, never a dull moment when we went out and never lost for chatter. Will miss you lots. God bless. Sheila . xx
  • Malgorzata Zmijewska online donation
    Dear Sandy, Thank you for all your support, advice and good words when we worked together. I miss you so much, our afternoon teas and chats in the car park after work 😢 Rest in peace lovely lady and keep smiling. Lots of love 💕 Gosia xx
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Rosie Humphris online donation
    Dear Sandra, you were one of the first people I met when I moved to the village over 30 years ago. So many happy memories of times spent together while our girls were growing up & beyond. Your warm friendship, fun sense of humour & radient smile will stay with me always. You will be so very missed dear friend. Rosie xxx
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Lorraine & Kevin online donation
    Such a beautiful, kind, caring and special lady who will be missed by so many. It was a pleasure to know you 🌈 Lorraine and Kevin xx
  • Janet cameron online donation
    Words cannot say how much I will miss you Sandy
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Caz & Graham Parris online donation
    Dearest Sandy, just watched your funeral webcast. What a lovely service and tribute, so very fitting for such a beautiful lady inside and out. Over 40 years of friendship, always lots of fun and laughter and many treasured memories. You were always the life and soul at every party and oh how you loved to dance. You will be so very much missed by not only your beautiful family but your many friends. RIP until we meet again. Sincere condolences and much love, thoughts and prayers to all.
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Kerry Flint online donation
    Sandy, I will always remember your warmth and welcome to us at Flint House. You will be sadly missed by all. You had a very gentle caring soul and made us welcome. Love Kerry and Matty xx
  • £50.00 (+ £11.88) Ben and Meg Cashley online donation
  • Adrian and Kay Bridges online donation
    Such a lovely lady who has gone far too soon. A great loss.
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Kim Russell online donation
    Such sad news, you will be missed so much by so many, it was an honour to know you. I have so many amazing memories growing up, being friends with Nicole and so many memories include you, Weymouth holidays, concert trips, losing Nicole on a London Underground, getting ready for out school discos, birthday party's and your amazing cakes! You always welcomed me in and made me like part of the family which I thank you for, I hope my Nan is looking after you, sleep well xx
  • Jo-Anne Harrison online donation
    Dear lovely Sandy, I will miss you so very much. We had many a fun evening didn't we, catching up and laughing over a glass or three 😀. You will always be in my heart and never forgotten. Sleep in peace my beautiful friend xx 💕
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Christine Richards online donation
    Dear Sandra,so sorry we all lost you so early. A lovely friend, you will be greatly missed. Christine x
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Claire Maslen online donation
    Can't believe we have to say goodbye to you today Sand 😥 still in shock 💔 thank you for the wonderful memories we have made together over the last 21 years , they will say with me forever. I'm so sorry your body has let you down but you have been so brave. I know you will be watching over your gorgeous girls always 💗.....until we meet again my friend 🙏🏻 RIP
  • Christina Payne online donation
    My dearest Sandy it's hard to accept that I will never see your radiant smile feel your warmth or hear your infectious laugh again, you were a 'work mum' to many including me 😘 always ready to listen to anyone who needed to just talk. You have know idea how special you were, I shall always spare a thought for you and your family every day. Our thoughts are with your daughters Nicole, Colette and your granddaughter xxx
  • £30.00 Robert Cashley online donation
    My deepest condolences for the loss of a great Aunt. I'll treasure the memories I have visiting Reading as a child; you'll forever be in my thoughts.
  • Julie Grant online donation
    Loved seeing you at Flint House and reminiscing about our hockey days such a beautiful person inside and out may you rest in peace x
  • £50.00 Danny & Kim Cashley (The Norwich Clan) online donation
    To a much loved and beautiful sister-in-law. We will always miss seeing you on our visits to Reading and they will always hold a special place in our hearts. Rest in peace xx
  • Lynne Newell online donation
    Although we only caught up now and then was always like we had never been apart. Will miss you xx
  • £25.00 (+ £5.94) Osgood family online donation
    My lovely Godmother, you will be so missed. Thoughts and prayers with Nicole and Colette and family. Sending lots of love. Vix and family xxx
  • £30.00 Lyn March online donation
    Always vivacious and elegant and an all-round good person. Deepest condolences.
  • Julia Birtwistle online donation
  • FLINT HOUSE online donation
    In memory of your many years of dedication to the Centre. You will be very much missed by everyone at Flint House
  • Anonymous online donation
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Jenny & Alex Barnes online donation
    Beautiful Sandy, we have such fond memories of working with you at Flint House. 💗 You were so kind, funny and always smiling. You really were a special person and we're so grateful to have known you. We'll never forget you! xxxx
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Tracey Wibberley online donation
    My beautiful, kind, funny wonderful work Mum. You have given me so much love, advice and more importantly prosecco drinking over the years. I am going to miss you so very very much. Love you always, Tracey (Merrill) 💜💜💜💜
  • The Health and Well-being Team, Flint House online donation
    Sandy, A gentle, patient, kind and loving soul. Your cheerful presence will be missed, but we are blessed to have known you.
  • Sandra Faulkner online donation
    Will miss your smile that lit up the dining room, your welcome and grace to everyone who had the honour of spending any time with you, no matter how long or short. Rest in peace
  • Sue Tincknell online donation
    Taken from us far too soon, I miss you dreadfully. Thank you for being a wonderful friend and for all the laughs, walks and late night chats. Sleep in peace beautiful lady xxx
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Sheila and Dave online donation
    Can't believe that we wont be seeing your beautiful smile again. You were taken too soon when you had so much more to give.
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Penny online donation
    My dear beautiful friend Sandra, I am going to miss you so very much, your laughter and your wonderful smile,our fun evenings out, and all our phone calls.You were such a special friend to me, with a beautiful soul, and I cannot believe you are gone. Sending lots of love to your beautiful girls Nicole and Colette. Miss you always. Love from Penny xxxxx
  • £20.00 Wendy Davies online donation
    Dear Sandy, so many happy memories from our time at Tilburys and teenage fun in Twyford village. Rest in peace lovely lady xxxx
  • £10.00 Geraldine Walls online donation
    Sending my love and prayers to Sandra's daughters Nicole and Colette. From Geraldine, Angie's sister in Australia
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Sheila Härper online donation
    Sandy you are beautiful inside and out, you have been such a good friend to me over the many years I have known you. I will miss you so much and will never forget you. Lots of love Sheila ❤️
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Sally Bergmann online donation
    You were too young and too nice to leave us so early, and after such a hard battle. I have missed our competitive rallies on the badminton court and our chats and laughter court-side. It really won't be the same without you Sandy. There will be a fuchsia bush in my garden with your name on it. God bless . Rest in peace .xx
  • £20.00 (+ £4.75) Victoria Beaumont online donation
    Sandy you were such a lovely lady with a big heart. You were the best works mum and always there for a chitchat. We had many good days out with the Prosecco club, most of the time we drank a bit to much 😂. Lots of love xxxx
  • Robert Chalmers online donation
    Hello Sandy, 💐 your wonderful👏 smile 😁 and bright infectious personality will be so missed 😪so much. I would like to thank you for all your dedicated help over the years! Such stalwart, steadfast and exceptional team playing! Sandy, while I think of you, my thoughts ❤ go out to you wonderful daughters, Nicole and Collette whom will be missing you so much. Sandy in was my pleasure to have known you say safe, rest well and keep on smiling!
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Richard Collis online donation
    Dear Sandy I have been the lucky one for knowing you Thank you for everything friendship lot's of laughs and a good drinking partner x X Richard X x 💕
  • Julie Meagrow online donation
    Sandy, you were one special lady. You always had a lovely smile and we always had a quick chat each day about our families and planned holidays. You will be missed.
  • Nicola Day online donation
    Dear Sandy you were such a good friend. We had so many evenings chatting and laughing. We enjoyed brilliant trips to Hope Cove and you were always there to help with the dog. I shall miss your lovely smile and sense of humour. I will always remember you in my heart lovely lady xx
  • Debbie Trinder online donation
    Flint House dining room is not the same without your lovely smile. We shared some laughs & you will always be remembered
  • £30.00 Johanna Butland online donation
    My dear friend, this is a day I never thought would come. I think of all the lovely yes together, council sessions, walks, holidays and a few drinks. Wonderful meals, especially ones you cooked(thinking sticky toffee pudding Angela mentioned. You may be gone from us but we all have you in our hearts forever.
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Angie Brett online donation
    My dear friend Sandy, how I will miss you, the happy fun times we shared, the weekends away, the dinner parties, you made the best and delicious sticky toffee pudding ever, our exciting holidays, I could go on and on. My beautiful friend you were taken from us too soon, you will always have a place at our table, and in my heart. Love Angie. Xx
  • Dave Crowdy online donation
    Sorry to hear the very sad news, deepest condolences to the Cashley / Benham clans. RIP Sandy you will be missed by everyone that knew you x The Crowdy's
  • £30.00 (+ £7.12) Mary Cripps online donation
    Oh Sandra, my lovely friend of over 40 years. We had some laughs, some tears and lovely evenings out and chats. I will miss you so very much and am so sorry thaf this has happened. You will always be in my heart. RIP lovely lady, will miss you so very much xxxxxxx